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What are the significant losses you have experienced in your lifetime? Whenever I ask that question of a client, the response is usually similar. It goes something like this: “Significant losses, well let’s see, my grandfather died when I was little but I don’t remember him well. I guess that’s about it.” followed by “oh yeah, my parent’s split up when I was a kid, I guess that’s significant.” \u00a0Why do you need to know that?”<\/span><\/p>

The reason it’s important is because in our society, we are taught not to grieve, or perhaps more accurately, we’re taught to ignore our grief by acting like it doesn’t exist. If we are aware of it we try to make it go away by replacing the loss. That way we can avoid the pain of grief that comes from significant loss. \u00a0I am not advocating pain but covering it up only causes more hurt. Once it’s dealt with however, that’s when it finally goes away or becomes manageable.\u00a0Think about your own life experience. What losses have you experienced that have never been acknowledged? <\/span><\/p>

Listed here in no particular order is some examples major loss:\u00a0\u00a0<\/span><\/p>