Studies have shown that children who experience sexual abuse tend to recover quicker and with better results if they have a supportive, caring adult (ideally a parent) consistently in their life.

It’s crucial for every victim of sexual abuse to seek counseling to decrease or to prevent PTSD symptoms. Since 35% of child sexual abusers were once abused (and the number is higher in males), counseling might also help to reduce the possibility of a victim repeating the abusive pattern.

Some of the most startling statistics unearthed during research into sexual abuse are that children are three times as likely to be victims of rape than adults, and that stranger abuse constitutes by far the minority of cases. It is more likely for a child to experience sexual abuse at the hands of a family member or another supposedly trustworthy adult.

What constitutes “sexual abuse”?

The Incest Survivors Resource Network states that “the erotic use of a child, whether physically or emotionally, is sexual exploitation in the fullest meaning of the term, even if no bodily contact is ever made.” It’s important to notice this clause about “no sexual contact.” Often, victims of sexual abuse will try to downplay their experience by saying that it “wasn’t that bad.” It’s vital to recognize that abuse comes in many shapes, colors, and sizes—and that all abuse is bad.

Outcomes of sexual abuse

By far the most common effect of sexual abuse is Post Traumatic Stress Disorder. Symptoms can extend far into adulthood and can include withdrawn behavior, reenactment of the traumatic event, avoidance of circumstances that remind one of the event, and physiological hyper-reactivity.

Another legacy of sexual abuse is that children abused at any early age often become hyper-sexualized or sexually reactive. Issues with promiscuity and poor self-esteem are unfortunately common reactions to early sexual abuse.

Substance abuse is another common outcome of sexual abuse. In fact, according to the AAETS, “specialists in the addiction field (alcohol, drugs and eating disorders) estimate that up to 90 percent of their patients have a known history of some form of abuse.” 

Specific symptoms of sexual abuse

(from the American Academy of Experts in Traumatic Stress)

• Withdrawal and mistrust of adults

• Suicidality

• Difficulty relating to others except in sexual or seductive ways

• Unusual interest in or avoidance of all things sexual or physical

• Sleep problems, nightmares, fears of going to bed

• Frequent accidents or self-injurious behaviors

• Refusal to go to school, or to the doctor, or home

• Secretiveness or unusual aggressiveness

• Sexual components to drawings and games

• Neurotic reactions (obsessions, compulsiveness, phobias)

• Habit disorders (biting, rocking)

• Unusual sexual knowledge or behavior

• Prostitution

• Forcing sexual acts on other children

• Extreme fear of being touched

• Unwillingness to submit to physical examination

Studies have shown that children who experience sexual abuse tend to recover quicker and with better results if they have a supportive, caring adult (ideally a parent) consistently in their life.

It’s crucial for every victim of sexual abuse to seek counseling to decrease or to prevent PTSD symptoms. Since 35% of child sexual abusers were once abused (and the number is higher in males), counseling might also help to reduce the possibility of a victim repeating the abusive pattern.

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